How do you cope with rejection?
You’ve finally finished your novel, you’ve self-edited it, a professional editor has edited it, and you've proofread and polished it. You’ve spent as much time writing a synopsis as you did actually writing it. You’ve perfected your cover email, researched your target literary agents and publishers and now you’re ready to hit them with your magnificent opus. And the rejection email comes winging back. (Not for us. Unsuitable for our lists. Better luck elsewhere. The market is extremely competitive. We liked your work but… ) Gutted.
So what do you do? Cry your eyes out? Crawl under the duvet and stay there for days? Delete the manuscript? Swear you’ll never write another word? Take it as a huge personal insult? Swear vengeance?
No! You shout ‘Next!’ And send it out again. Never ever give up.
Do you know the story of Marlon James, Booker Prize Winner 2015 for A Brief History of Seven Killings, who wrote off his own writing career after receiving 78 rejections? His last rejection said, ‘Not for us.’ He deleted his manuscript, destroyed his computer and then made all his friends dispose of their copies. One of them didn’t. On winning the Booker Prize 2015, he said, ‘If you’re a writer, you have to believe in yourself. Because if you’re a writer, you’re going to come across that moment where you’re the only one who does.’ I love this; he had the humility and the courage, not only to say how many rejections he had had before finally being published, but to then give such encouragement and hope to other struggling writers.
So what are you going to do next time you receive a rejection?